This means a huge part of bipolar is that, when your partner most needs help, they will be least likely to look for or accept it.Some people with bipolar can be very proactive about their care, but this is usually after treatment has begun to help.Know that it’s not you, and there’s nothing you can do but be there. We may have fears of abandonment, and worry that you may leave at any given time. We’re not doubting you, we’re more doubting ourselves. Please don’t question an unpredictable mood, simply ask how we’re feeling and if there’s anything you do.Likely, there’s not, but it’s nice to know you want to help 4.
Its really hurtful going out with him because when he wants me he pressures till i fall again and after going out with him he emotionally disconnects as if he hated me.Here are 12 things you should know before dating someone with BPD 1.There may be a day where we wake up feeling over the moon, but before the day’s out we may just want to hide under the covers and cry.I´m sure there must be a psychological way to combat his inadequate attitudes due to his illness.( For example as giving confidence to a shy person, or making someone with phobias confront them).I´m sure some attitudes of the other partner may aggravate it and others make them milder. Must i let him beg for sex…say today i´m busy i cant go ,…So that he values me.